authentic and strong ------------------------------------ you do not kiss anybody's ass or pretend you are anything that you're not fiercely independent you have your rules not guidelines not negotiables rules and you don't doll up to please man or woman or play with hearts for the sake of playing you don't care who cares if you care that's enough you don't try to be sexy instead you are strong certain, focused, driven, persistent and loyal and wow, that is powerfully awesomely sexy. (c) 2015 douglas brent smith